February 2018

I’ve made no bones about the fact I will not discuss politics or religion; however, I have no hesitation stating my beliefs when it comes to anything I feel could be positively affected by my view.    This blog is a compilation of comments I made on Facebook recently, and I have entitled them, “Be Part of a ‘Team for Change'”.

“BE PART OF A ‘TEAM FOR CHANGE’

I’d imagine ‘We, the People’ need to start at our local government levels..the big picture is simply too big, I’m thinking.

I would urge anyone who is absolutely in earnest to do something effective, to begin in their own neighborhood, and be very vocal (not rabid) about it.  Volunteer for local politicians (if you trust them, forget about the party, think about their effectiveness in office); work your way through, and become a lynch pin toward solutions in your own local governmental process.

Parents of school age children, go to your school board meetings and be commentators and voters and watchdogs for your schools and your own community.  I’m having a meeting 2/23/18 with an organizer of our own community where I live.  I’ll help her in any way I can – it’s about keeping our neighborhood safe, helping those who can’t help themselves, perhaps, and whatever else she has in her agenda to which I can contribute.  This is through the Nextdoor.com groups that are organizing in several towns.  A personal friend of mine is extremely active in the Sedona, AZ group.  If a person isn’t able to be a ‘Leader’, they can still search out the strength in their own neighborhood and be a part of the Team for Change.

Wherever we are we can always be an instrument of peace and civility and volunteer for change, whatever the venue.  I, personally, resist ‘table-pounders’…sideliners who continue to pour out their venom without leaving their chairs in front of the computer.  (Albeit a heartfelt speaking out for their position, with a resistance to another’s louder rabid voice.)  There have to be people who are willing to define themselves which begins in their own home and how they interact in their own family unit…assessing their own personal priorities which become peace giving expressions first to themselves, and then to their immediate inner circle members.

When I continue to look through enough lenses, I am able to say these things now, and declare my truths…defying what others may think!  I don’t need to hit below any belts, I don’t need to pull together a gang to state my views.  I already do what I think I can do to be effective, and I will continue forward likewise.  I am my own proof of my own peace…and I take the inevitable struggles that may present, in stride.  We never arrive, but we always learn!

THERE ARE MANY SIGNS OF DYSFUNCTION IN FAMILIES.  We need to begin to look at our own dysfunction and work inward and then outward.  This will be a slow-but-sure process.   CHANGE DOESN’T HAPPEN QUICKLY, whether it be personal or social.”    Just Sayin’   Kaye A. Peters.

We are the people…the ‘pool’, if you will, where our government leaders come from.  Let us become serious citizens of this wonderful country where we live, and make every effort to model the caring behavior to our children, and never lose sight that our families must be the first responders from their homes and neighborhoods….With Liberty and Justice for All.

I don’t need the limelight – I am more than willing to carry whatever light I have to whatever cause that can use my contribution.  Blessed Be, and To All Be Blessed.

So, it’s February 14, 2018 – Valentine’s Day….HEARTS DAY!

I got to thinking – yet again – just how big are our hearts anyway?  How many pieces can they be split into, and are we asked to do this?  Well, maybe!  We have Mothers’ Day, Fathers’ Day, Grandparents’ Day, Birthdays of everyone born,  and not to exclude all of the patriotic days which many give their hearts to as well.

Considering what I have just stated, and considering that I believe I am a Spiritual Being living in a human condition, I also acknowledge that my Higher Self, if you will, is purely Love and Light.  Stay with me here:  If ‘the sermon’ is  Love and Kindness as the comportment of all of us, why then do we have these specially denoted days for those that are apparently supposed to be deserving of even more love than we are told we already have for everyone?

My son is  coming in today on ‘vehicle business’, I’m making a pot roast for us, he won’t be staying.   After eating,  he’ll go back to get his trailer and off on a hunt for the rest of this month.  I love him every waking hour of my life!  I love his deceased brother the same way!  I love myself so much that I continue to try to figure out what I can do to become a better person, mother, friend, neighbor, citizen…I don’t have a “Valentine-person”…a lover, if you will, but I do remember one of the last times I was with a significant other, and coincidentally, this memory has to do with Valentines Day!

My other son and significant other were traveling from Minnesota to Phoenix,  to take care of some business.  It was over the Valentine’s Day time.  I received a darling card from my son, and he signed it “Your son, Rambo!”  (I wish I had saved that card…he knew how much I loved all of the Rambo movies.)  My male companion sent a card too…I don’t recall anything particularly special about it, other than it was a Valentine’s Day card.

I really do believe every day is HEARTS DAY!  I really do believe we should wear our hearts on our sleeve for those we love very specially EVERY DAY…And, birthdays?  Well, I’ll continue to give my son a card celebrating that special day that was in MY life…I have loved him every single day of my life since I became a Mother for the second time….and it is nice to tell him how much I do love him, and how proud I am to be his Mother, and how proud I am of him, my Son.

HEARTS ARE VERY BIG….Can’t we sustain BIG LOVE every day?  Kindness is a huge component of Love not to forget.

Boy would the greeting card companies make out big if we were sending 365 cards a year to everyone who is special to us!  To say nothing of candy companies and jewelry stores and floral shops.

So for all of us who show love to our loved ones….this is yet another thing we can do “Our Way”.  HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY ALL!

NEXT YEAR, MAYBE I’LL SEND MYSELF A VALENTINE’S CARD, SOME FLOWERS, AND A BOX OF CANDY – Turtles, my favorite!

Blessed Be, and to All, Be Blessed.