I’m not going to wait to see what the ‘New Normal’ is going to be! I’ve been configuring my ‘new normal’ for the past few years as I keep changing myself ‘UP’ and ‘FORWARD’ the best way I know how…and this continues to be with a lot of outside help!
Doesn’t it seem curious that Covid-19 had to present itself, before the world society as a whole had to go into crises mode and begin to take LIFE seriously?
Before this pandemic, we were caught up in the fires in Australia, and the drug pandemic and terrorism and school shootings, to say nothing of our own personal life tantrums, everyday lives, births and deaths which are always ongoing.
Years ago, I was told by a boss he didn’t think I took life seriously. This remained a quandary in my mind for years…I really didn’t know what he had meant. I gave him tribute in my first book: “To the late ‘Odie’, who said to me, ‘Kaye, I don’t think you take yourself seriously!’. I carried his words with me without full grasp for more than 30 years. This wise man spoke to my future enlightenment and made his mark upon my Soul. His message holds a remarkable place within me and he deserves this special tribute. I know he is aware.”
What is it about the human nature that is so peculiar to each of us when it comes to what ‘reaches’ us? I know it isn’t the same for everyone. It seems we have a stubbornness, or a bullish attitude, or some kind of inner stance that necessitates a ‘leg sweep’, bringing us to our own ‘bottom hit’, before something miraculous is able to happen…before we finally grab hold of a perceived threat and get serious within ourselves. WHAT A SHAME IT HAS TO COME TO THAT!
It’s like we offer up continuous dares to God, Source Energy,the Universe, the Creator, as if our lives were our own whimsical success story no matter what we did or didn’t do!
Fact! I have to take even better care of myself. I have to be even more aware of my surroundings. I have to realize how imminently connected I am physically with everything and everyone around me at all times. I have to think more outside the box when it comes to my personal safety. I have to realize that unseen catastrophes can be averted when I am more mindful living in the NOW.
What I am suggesting to myself is that I need to live more carefully, less carelessly, with less assumption that things are the same more than they are different or changing. The World Is Changing All The Time. I may not be able to keep up with all of the advances in science and technology and medicine, but I am able to continuously take better care of myself within the societal landscape of my own life.
A neighborhood acquaintance came to my door yesterday…apparently, in total disregard of our current ‘stay home if you don’t have to go out’ ground rules. I was astonished. It seemed he came for a social visit. I immediately asked him to step back and keep his distance…I had no plans to invite him in. People do strange things!
We’ve been told when we’re behind the wheel of a car, to be a defensive driver. I think the time has come that we have to become a ‘defensive liver!’ We have to beware and stand ready to take action against thoughtless behaviors of others. Socially, it seems we are inclined to give leeway to another, giving one the benefit of the doubt, but I think these days are now over. Instead of being our brother’s/sister’s keeper, we have to be more mindful to make sure our brother/sister is more responsible, by virtue of our own responsibility to self. We have to always be thinking in the name of the common good. We cannot be permitting or allowing, in the face of worrying about hurting another’s feelings. Time has come that we’ve been rapped on the head…or, I’ll say, I feel the rap on my own head…I’ve got to stand up in a different way for my welfare, my safety, my peace and my calm. IT’S ABOUT BEING MATTER-OF-FACT ABOUT LIFE.
The Times, They Are A-changin’. I will be more responsible for my place in this world, in my home, my neighborhood and how I view my life. Life is indeed serious business…it always has been. Nothing should be taken for granted.
It is good when one recognizes just how precious everything under creation is. ~Gaya
Blessed Be. To All Be Well and Safe.
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